Today the Pope, Leo XIV (a pleasure to type that) gave a sermon for a Mass for the Jubilee of Families, Children, Grandparents and the Elderly.
In this sermon he directly contradicted something that Francis inspired in others through the still un-clarified document Amoris laetitia. You will recall that, years back in the buzz around and after the Synods (“walkings together”) on the family, marriage and continence were degraded as nearly impossible “ideals” which people can’t be expected to try to attain. Therefore, it would emerge from that starting point, just about anyone (except perhaps those who attend the Traditional Latin Mass), in any sort of relationship, adulterous, same-sex, etc., should be admitted to Communion, blessed, “accompanied”.
The situation was bad enough concerning marriage, divorce, adultery and Communion, that four cardinals submitted five questions (dubia) asking for clarification. Those questions were left, infamously, ignored, except through a strange response from the DDF
With that unpleasant chaos in the background, this is what Pope Leo said today:
In recent decades, we have received a sign that fills us with joy but also makes us think. It is the fact that several spouses have been beatified and canonized, not separately, but as married couples. I think of Louis and Zélie Martin, the parents of Saint Therese of the Child Jesus; and of Blessed Luigi and Maria Beltrame Quattrocchi, who raised a family in Rome in the last century. And let us not forget the Ulma family from Poland: parents and children, united in love and martyrdom. I said that this is a sign that makes us think. By pointing to them as exemplary witnesses of married life, the Church tells us that today’s world needs the marriage covenant in order to know and accept God’s love and to defeat, thanks to its unifying and reconciling power, the forces that break down relationships and societies.
For this reason, with a heart filled with gratitude and hope, I would remind all married couples that marriage is not an ideal but the measure of true love between a man and a woman: a love that is total, faithful and fruitful (cf. SAINT PAUL VI, Humanae Vitae, 9). This love makes you one flesh and enables you, in the image of God, to bestow the gift of life.
For all you young people out there, contemplating your vocation, your future, the married life… YES… it is possible to live holy lives in the sacred bond of matrimony and your contribution to wider society, to your extended family, and to your Church is immeasurable. It is hard to see up close and it is hard to see from afar, but there are, as Leo pointed out, saintly families of the past (but living in memory and in our honoring at the altar) which serve as exceptional models and there are many wonderful families – perhaps your own, and so I pray – close at hand with whom you can draw great strength and guidance.