Good Friday Tenebrae: Rome, Trinità dei Pellegrini
Follow along: HERE
I am really happy to inform you that the wonderful nuns of Gower Abbey, the Benedictines of Mary, Queen of Apostles, have a new disc and digital download:
These are the RESPONSORIES of Tenebrae for all three days of the Triduum. They are, arguably, the most beautiful chants of the entire liturgical year.
You can order from the sisters directly also: HERE
I had the digital cuts a few days ago thanks to Mother Cecilia and I have included little tastes of them in my last few LENTCAzTs, e.g. for Spy Wednesday at the end. Ethereal.
When I did my canonical retreat for ordination, I went to the largest monastery of Benedictine nuns in Italy at Rosano. It was Holy Week and they sang Tenebrae. There were over 60 nuns and it was glorious. In these recordings, you can have a sense of what it is to be in a chapel live with these chants sung by women.
Imagine… this is what certain people want to suppress.
Photo by The Great Roman™
In May I will be with a prolife pilgrimage group in Italy. I would like to stay longer after it is concluded (since I’ll already be there). So, I have my tin cup out in the form of the wavy flag. Click! (Full disclosure: I may have to go again in October.)
SO FAR… thanks to: ME, DH, WH, KG, FC, TG, AH, HL, AB, DS, MB (MI), MB (CA), LD, IG, Fr. PV, GR, MP, PO’F, JL, AR (OH), AR (MA), DD, AN, PG, DD (NY), RW, PT, HB, MT, JL, JS, TS, JR, GG, RG,
PS: Thanks to the kind person who sent the ironing board. It finally arrived – without a packing slip – with four different shipping labels as it bounced around from place to place (TX… MI… NJ…). I have no way to write to you privately.
I won’t say that I will enjoy using the ironing board, but I will say that you’ve made a task I really dislike a good deal easier.
Did you know that there are proper table blessing, meal prayers for great feast days and for the Sacred Triduum?
I made a post and podcast about this some time ago.
However, seeing that it is Holy Thursday, I thought you might want to be ready for the evening meal and perhaps give these prayers a try.
In the aforementioned post, I wrote about these little booklets from a budding monastic community in S. France, the Monastère Saint-Benoît. They are doing great things there, including rebuilding an old Abbey.

Here are pages for the Triduum.





On another note… speaking of prayers and meals….
… our Jewish friends are getting ready for Passover, which begins Friday evening.
Just as we have a time before which the Easter Vigil must NOT begin, fixed by sunset, so too Jews have a time for the lighting of candles for their Shabbat meal. This time is special because at dawn of 14 Nissan – Friday, 15 April, it is Ta’anit Bechorot of the Hebrew Year 5782. This is the Fast of the First Born, and only firstborns must fast. You remember the fate of the firstborn at that first Passover who were not in houses marked with the blood. The portion of Torah to be read is from Exodus 32:11-14 and 34:1-10.
In the evening on Friday for Erev Pesach, where I am (the timing depends on your location on the planet because sunset differs) candle lighting is 19:28 and on Saturday evening 20:23 for Pesach. The Portion for Saturday is Exodus 12:21-51 and Numbers 28:16-25.
Pesach, Passover of Unleavened Bread, lasts an Octave, like our Easter Octave.
BTW… this is important to know if we want to figure out the timing of the Last Supper and the Crucifixion of the Lord. The Gospel accounts seem to give different timelines. However, they can be resolved if we understand how Passover and the Shabbat work together in different years. In John 19:13, Christ is brought before Pilate on the day of Preparation for Passover which sounds as if it is before the sacrifice of the lambs. However, it is the preparation for the sabbath, the Friday during that “octave” of Passover. So, Jesus and the Apostles eat the Passover, Last Super meal and the next day, a Friday, He is crucified. And the Jews wanted to get the bodies of the men down from the crosses before sunset because it was preparation for the shabbat within the observance week of Passover, hence it was the Preparation Day for the SHABBAT within the Passover “octave”, not Preparation Day for PASSOVER. So, both the Synoptic Gospels and John are right. You just have to understand the terms. If you don’t get that, then non-Catholic scholars like Joachim Jeremias accuses John of changing the timeline so that Christ was crucified at the time of the slaughter of the lambs. This same guy, by the way, was the Lutheran whom the modernist liturgists leaned on to distort the translation of Latin “pro multis” into “for all”.
But that’s another story.
And, for the sake of completeness, the Vigil of Easter is to be celebrated “noctu… at night”.
The rubrics for this rite, as found in the 2002MR says this is “nox“, night.
3. Tota celebratio Vigliae paschalis peragi debet noctu, ita ut vel non incipiatur ante initium noctis, vel finiatur ante diluculum diei dominicae.
The whole celebration of the Paschal Vigil ought to be completed at night, both so that it does not begin before the beginning of night, and that it finishes before dawn of Sunday.
The 1988 Circular of the CDW, called Paschale solemnitatis (Notitiae 24 [1988] pp. 81-107) dealt with the time of the beginning of the Vigil,
78. This rule is to be taken according to its strictest sense. Reprehensible [!] are those abuses and practices which have crept in many places in violation of this ruling, whereby the Easter Vigil is celebrated at the time of day that it is customary to celebrate anticipated Masses.
You can work this out if you understand when the end of Astronomical Twilight occurs in your location. Adjust for daylight savings and think through it.
QUAERITUR:
Father, if the confessor forgot say “IN THE NAME” in absolution formula, is the sacrament VALID? But, the confessor makes the sign of the cross.
Again we have some jackass who doesn’t use the proper “form” of a sacrament and, by fooling around with it, causes confusion and anxiety among the faithful.
Now for an answer to the question.
A confessor says the first part of the form of absolution “I absolve you from your sins” and the OMITS “in the name of” and goes straight to “Father Son and Holy Spirit” while making the sign of the Cross.
I think this stupidly sloppy but it is valid.
I find in Fundamentals of Catholic Dogma by Ludwig Ott.
“In the Latin Church the words are: Ego te absolvo a peccatis tuis in nomine Patris et Filii et Spiritus Sancti. Amen. The words” in nomine Patris et Filii et Spiritus Sancti” are demanded neither by the ordinance of Christ nor by the nature of the judicial sentence for the validity of the form. The prayers preceding and following the Absolution are not essential to the form, and may be omitted for a grave reason.”
There it is.
A grave reason could be an pressing emergency. A man is trapped under rubble in a burning building and the firefighters are dragging the priest away as they strive to save everyone’s lives.
There is no possible grave reason when you are in a parish confessional during regularly scheduled confessions.
No, wait. Another scenario, in a parish confession during regular hours: The priest tries to finish the form of absolution while having a heart attack and, in his pain, omits that part of the form.
FATHERS! SAY THE BLACK! Just say the words as they have been given. Do NOT fool around with people according to your insignificant whims.
Photo by The Great Roman™
In May I will be with a prolife pilgrimage group in Italy. I would like to stay longer after it is concluded (since I’ll already be there). So, I have my tin cup out in the form of the wavy flag. Click! (Full disclosure: I may have to go again in October.)
SO FAR… thanks to: ME, DH, WH, KG, FC, TG, AH, HL, AB, DS, MB (MI), MB (CA), LD, IG, Fr. PV, GR, MP, PO’F, JL, AR (OH), AR (MA), DD, AN, PG, DD (NY), RW, PT
From a reader…
I was the gentleman that called you in February and thanked you for harping on getting the Apostolic Pardon for the dying. I did that for my father, Daniel, and left a message after he passed. You even did a post on it! Thank you!
Well, I am a ham, KE8IBH too. I wrote a study guide for the 2022-2026 Technician Exam. I was hoping you could post it on your website, instead of my competitor. LOL!
Technician Class Test 2022-2026
God bless you for your kindness to my dad and me!
73!
Thanks for that. It does my heart good when I get notes from people to say that, because of something they read here, they knew to do A, B or C… such as get a priest and make sure the Apostolic Pardon was imparted.
In May I will be with a prolife pilgrimage group in Italy. I would like to stay longer after it is concluded (since I’ll already be there). So, I have my tin cup out in the form of the wavy flag. Click! (Full disclosure: I may have to go again in October.)
Thanks: ME, DH, WH, KG, FC, TG, AH, HL, AB, DS, MB (MI), MB (CA), LD, IG, Fr. PV, GR, MP, PO’F, JL, AR (OH), AR (MA), DD,
From a reader…
QUAERITUR:
Do personality disorders prevent a marriage from being valid?
For example, if a couple married in the Church, and one and/or both of them are later diagnosed with a personality disorder (such as Obsessive Compulsive Personality Disorder, or Narcissistic Personality Disorder), would their marriage be considered valid?
I ask because my spouse was recently diagnosed with OCPD, and I am concerned about validity.
“Later diagnosed…”.
A first principle: Marriages enjoy the presumption of validity. That is, they are presumed to be valid unless sufficient proof to the contrary is offered.
To prove invalidity, the person raising the doubt or making the allegation about the possible invalidity of his or her own marriage bears the burden of proof. He or she must supply either 1) evidence either of incapacity to contract marriage on the part of one or both of the parties, or 2) proof that one or both of the parties simulated matrimonial consent, either totally or partially.
There are a few other grounds for nullity, but the main grounds are incapacity or simulation.
A diagnosis of a mental illness at some point after the wedding does not automatically render a marriage null on the spot.
Remember: it is the condition of the people at the time of the marriage that matters. Something that is diagnosed after doesn’t necessarily mean that one or both of them were in that condition at the time of the marriage.
Moreover, the process to investigate a matrimonial bond (as to its possible invalidity or nullity) can take place only when the Tribunal has arrived at certainty that there is no longer 1) hope of reconciliation between the parties, 2) nor is there hope of 2) reestablishing common life as spouses.
Typically, at least in these United States, the proof that there is no longer any hope of reconciliation between the parties is when one of the parties produces a divorce decree from a civil/secular court.
No longer any hope.
Note that there is a difference between “there is no hope” and “it would be really difficult”.
This quote from Pope Benedict XVI’s 2009 Allocution to the Roman Rota is helpful (my emphases and comments:
In our meeting today, I wish to draw the attention of those engaged in the practice of law to the need to handle cases with the depth and seriousness required by the ministry of truth and charity proper to the Roman Rota. Indeed, responding to the need for procedural precision, the aforementioned Addresses provide, on the basis of the principles of Christian anthropology, fundamental criteria not only for the weighing of expert psychiatric and psychological reports, but also for the judicial settlement of causes. In this regard it is helpful to recall several clear-cut distinctions. First of all, the distinction between “the psychic [psychological] maturity which is seen as the goal of human development” and, on the other hand, “the canonical maturity which is the basic minimum required for establishing the validity of marriage” (Address to the Roman Rota, 5 February 1987, n. 6). Second, the distinction between incapacity and difficulty, inasmuch as “incapacity alone, and not difficulty in giving consent and in realizing a true community of life and love, invalidates a marriage” (ibid., n. 7). Third, the distinction between the canonical approach to normality, which, based on an integral vision of the human person, “also includes moderate forms of psychological difficulty”, and the clinical approach, which excludes from the concept of normality every limitation of maturity and “every form of psychic illness” (Address to the Roman Rota, 25 January 1988, n. 5). And finally, the distinction between the “minimum capacity sufficient for valid consent” and the ideal capacity “of full maturity in relation to happy married life” (ibid.).