ASK FATHER: When to make an appointment for confession

From a reader…

QUAERITUR:

Would it be better (in order for the priest to have more time with the penitent) to make an appointment for confessing VERY grave sins (something even the most lenient person would say needs confessing) or should you just go at the beginning of the normally scheduled time?

Thank you in advance. Your insight into confession is invaluable.

I don’t see why a person needs more time to confess “VERY grave sins”.   Just tell the priest what you did, how many times or often, and include any relevant information about the circumstances.   In other words, cut to the chase and just say it.  That doesn’t take a lot of time.

If a person has a lot to confess, or is uncertain about how to make a good confession and wants help from the priest, or if for some reason advice is needed – which might take longer – then consider an appointment so that you are not taking up too much of the scheduled confession time.

BTW… priests don’t always want “more time with the penitent”.   They usually are content for you to be brief and be gone, so they can hear more confessions.

Make a good examination of conscience before getting into the confessional.  That really helps.

Then…

GO TO CONFESSION!

And don’t ramble.

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ASK FATHER: Sorting out confusing, contradictory messages from priests

From a reader…

QUAERITUR:

Thank you for allowing me the opportunity to ask you a question since I know you are knowledgable and do not lead souls astray. My question is not meant to vent about the state of the church, since I know it is not healthy right now. But WHO do I listen to in regards to our faith.

I ONLY want to go to Heaven and have my family as well. But it seems every priest, bishop and such have their own opinions about salvation.

Who is right? The traditional priests I listen to via traditional sites say things I never hear in my parish… like you can’t go to heaven with unreported mortal sin. (Basic stuff). How do I know that what my priest leads me to believe (that everyone goes to heaven) isn’t the case? I am confused, conflicted and concerned deeply about the salvation of myself and those around me. Thank you for any insight.

We live in a confusing and confused period in the Church right now.

If we are paying close attention to churchy news, we read about a Pope who seems to be contradicting previous Popes.  We read about bishops conferences taking 180° opposite directions on pastoral issues or even suggesting practices that 50 years ago even a 7 year-old would have known were wrong.  We read about bishops saying conflicting things on doctrinal points.  We all know that from parish to parish we will hear a bewildering array of conflicting sermons.

This chaos is the mark of a crisis.  It is an indication that Satan is at work.   That shouldn’t be a surprise: strike the shepherds and the sheep scatter.

There is an old chestnut out there that the Chinese character for “crisis” is also the character for “opportunity”.  That’s wrong, of course, but that doesn’t mean that the sentiment behind that mistake is wrong.

Crisis is also opportunity.

When the Holy Father says something that makes people scratch their heads, or some dopey bishop or bishops go to the zoo on some doctrinal point, or a loopy priest gets into the news by saying things that are wrong, I have an opportunity to get up in the pulpit or sit at my keyboard and say or write with clarity what reliable sources set forth.  I can refer to the Catechism of the Catholic Church and other good sources.

Their imprudent shenanigans give me a chance to review and then to instruct, thus making my job both harder and easier at the same time.

It could be that the crisis we are in will clear out a lot of dead wood, as it were.

So, when you hear something that strikes you as unsound, get out your copy of the Catechism of the Catholic Church, or other good catechisms, and look it up.  

In self-enrichment and in self-defense, begin to study the Catechism of the Catholic Church together, maybe in your family, maybe with small groups who meet for coffee or breakfast after Saturday morning Mass.  Read, review, study the Catechism of the Catholic Church.

US HERE – UK HERE (There are many editions.  Look around.)

I am a huge fan of Kindles (US HERE – UK HERE), but you should also have the BOOK, the material volume which you can hold in your hand and write in.  Get the book, which you can flip around in and hold spots in with a couple fingers as you cross check.

Read it.  Pick it up. Read portions every day.

St. John Paul II called the CCC, “a sure reference point”.

And on the point you raised about salvation, universal or not, I can say this.

Christ, by His Sacrifice, intended to open the gates of heaven to anyone who would accept the graces and walk the narrow path.  Not everyone will choose heaven.  God offers sufficient graces to people to be saved.  Not everyone accepts them.  Frankly, I think that the number of the saved is a good deal smaller than the number of the damned.  We have a lot of warnings from saints and, more recently, from the Blessed Virgin at Fatima about the number of the damned.  I believe the image was “falling like snowflakes”.    Grace and elbow grease will win our heavenly home.

Let’s do all that we can to be among the saved and be happy in heaven.  Let’s stick closely to the Church and to her sacraments and her authentic teachings, and not be overly troubled by the chaos.   We have to be realistic and sober about how the Enemy works to drag us away from God, especially through confusion, doubt and anger.

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Wherein Fr. Z assigns some worthwhile reading

At First Things there are two outstanding pieces to which I direct your attention.

Firstly, run, don’t walk, to read Martin Mosebach’s beautiful essay about “eternal Rome”.   The translator did a masterful job.  I read it yesterday on the airplane and I am still mulling it over.  I have the strong sense that Mosebach may have been looking a bit at City of God recently.   That apart, we often hear the phrase “eternal Rome” in the context of traditionalist debates, especially from the SSPX.  Hence, anything that a smart guy like Mosebach has to say about “eternal Rome” is worthwhile.  He strives to add some context and content to the term Romanitas.  At least I think that’s what he is doing, whether he intended to or not.   HERE

You should also immediately order his book, now back in print!

US HERE – UK HERE

Next, you will find the piece by Philadelphia’s Archbp. Chaput about the truly bizzare debate in Germany about Communion for non-Catholic spouses – without having to accept everything the Church teaches or go to confession, etc. etc.   The Archbishop raises a lot of questions and gives a clear warning that this debate is going to spread to a parish near you.  It’s not going to stay in Germany – right now seemingly the caput malorum omnium.   HERE

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Met “Gay-la” and new movie. Coincidence? I think not.

You all know about the “Gay-la” at the Metropolitan Museum of Art in NYC.  Each year, the Met has some big “fashion” exhibit.   This year, some folks in the Church were either duped or were consciously complicit in producing a shameful event with blasphemy and sacrilege.

That story has been roiling around for a couple weeks.

So, last night I turn on the idiot box just in time to see a commercial for a movie called Ocean’s 8.  Which is about a heist of stuff from … the annul Met gala.  The movie even includes Rihanna, who was probably the most photographed – wearing a miter – at the “Gay-la”.

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ASK FATHER: Forgetting sins during confession

From a reader…

QUAERITUR:

Dear Father, is it okay if I didn’t said the sin I was about to confess because my mind blocked? I didn’t finished it with the lines “for these and all my sins…” because I got a little tense and because I think it is already forgiven since I was just confessing sins I forgot last confession… Though I’m trying to remember it until now so I could bring it to the confessional next time. Thank you!

While we are obliged to confess all mortal sins in both kind (the sort of sin) and number (how many times or frequency), we are not obliged to do what is impossible.

If we can’t remember something, we can’t confess it.

People have memory lapses, especially when they are a little nervous, as people often are when they make their confession.   It is a common occurrence.

The important thing to know – and to do – is that we must do our very best when making our confession.

If you sincerely and truthfully confessed what you could remember, then all your sins were forgiven.   If you subsequently remember something that you didn’t confession before, then confess it the next time you go.

By remembering it, you do not fall back into the state of sin.  However, you still should confess what you remembered when you next go.

I hope this helps.

And for everyone else reading this…

GO TO CONFESSION!

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Day Of Prayer For The Church In China

My Vatican Curia calendar shows that today is the Day Of Prayer For The Church In China.

Just a few days ago, I read at Canticum Salominis about the Feast of Our Lady of China, 12 May, and her proper Mass.  There are also these prayers:

Prayer to Our Lady of China:

Hail, Holy Mary, Mother of Our Lord Jesus Christ, Mother of all nations and all people. You are the special heavenly Mother of the Chinese people. Teach us, your way of total obedience to God’s will. Help us to live our lives true to our faith. Fill our hearts with burning love for God and each other. Stir up in our youth, an unconditional giving of self to the service of God. We call on your powerful intercession for peace, reconciliation and unity among the believers and conversion of the unbelievers in China and throughout the world, for God’s mercy is our only hope. Our Lady of China, Mother of Jesus, hear our petitions and pray for us. Amen.

Consecration of the Chinese People to Our Lady of China:

O Mary, Mother of God, and our Mother, with sincere filial love, we consecrate to your most tender, most loving immaculate heart, our bodies, souls, abilities, lives, words and deeds, and all that we have. We also consecrate to you the Chinese people throughout the world. We pray that you be the Mother of priests and all missionaries. May they loyally and zealously proclaim the Kingdom of God. Be the Mother of all Christians. Help them to progress in virtue and to shine forth evermore the splendor of faith. Be the Mother of all unbelievers. Deliver them from darkness and lead them into the light of Faith. We beseech you to show mercy to the immense population of Chinese descent. They have all been redeemed by the precious blood of your Divine Son. Through your most efficacious intercession, may they all take refuge in the Sacred Heart of Jesus, the Source of life and holiness, and become one fold under One Shepherd in the Church.

Help of Christians, pray for us. Holy Mary, Mother of all Graces, pray for us. Our Lady of China, Queen of the Chinese People in Heaven, pray for us.

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Pope Francis on homosexual seminarians: This bridge is closed!

At Vatican Insider I spotted something interesting.  Each Spring the Italian bishops have a plenary meeting at the Vatican’s Paul VI hall, in the smaller hall where the Synod usually meets.  The Pope attends at least part of the meeting.  This year was no exception.

This year the Pope told them… my fast translation from the Italian original:

“If there’s a doubt about homosexuality, it’s better not to have them enter the seminary.”

The words of the Pope in the closed door session with the Italian bishops: “Discernment is needed”. Reaffirmed what was in the Vatican documents of 2005 and 2016

With the pastors of the CEI (Italian bishops conference) – Vatican insider learned – Francis, speaking about the downturn in vocations, one of his “three worries” for the Italian church, he was, instead, more straightforward and, inviting the bishops to oversee more the quality of future priests, then the quantity, explicitly mentioned cases of homosexual persons who desire, for various motives, to enter into the seminary. Then he invited the bishops to a “careful discernment”, adding: “if you have also the slightest doubt it’s better not to let them enter”.

One indication, from the Pope, that expresses his deep concern: these tendencies, which are “deeply rooted”, and the practice of “homosexual acts”, can compromise the life of the seminary beyond that of the young man himself and an eventual future priesthood. They can generate those “scandals” of which the Pope had spoken in his discourse at the opening of the assembly of the Italian bishops in the new hall of the Synod, that disfigure the face of the Church.

Between the lines one can read what was already put in black and white by Pope Francis in a letter of meditation given brevi manu [directly] to the Chile in bishops during their meeting in the Vatican. In a note added to the text. The Pontiff denounced verified problems in seminaries where – as he wrote – bishops and religious superiors have entrusted control to “priests suspected of practicing homosexuality”.

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There’s more, but it mainly reviews what previous documents say about homosexual candidates or seminarians.  I suspect someone will translate the whole thing soon… for the sake of general Jesuit reading.

To the bishops: “If you think that the guy is homosexual, don’t put him in the seminary.”

The Pontiff – the Pontifex… “Bridge Builder” – says that “This bridge is closed!

I wonder what that means for those who are already ordained.

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Does Pope Francis have a “long game” strategy?

We had a phrase in the Curia that described our approach to some questions and challenges: Cunctando regitur mundus.   This is a fundamental dimension of Romanitas: the world is ruled by delaying.

You outwait your opponents, rather than outwit them.  Think Cincinnatus and the Aequi.

There is an engaging piece at The Week about the Pope’s “cunning” long-game strategy.   Damon Linker, the writer, may be right and he may be wrong.  Either way it is a great read.

Pope Francis’ cunning long game

Pope Francis’ stealth reform of the Roman Catholic Church shows no sign of slowing down — and may even be accelerating.

Stealth is key here. If the pope had declared earlier this month that henceforth the Roman Catholic Church would authoritatively teach that homosexuals should be happy being gay, that God made them homosexual, and that God himself (along with the pope) loves them just the way they are, it would have been a massive story in the history of Catholicism — and one that quite likely would have precipitated a major schism, with conservative bishops and priests (mainly in North America and Africa) formally breaking from Rome.

But because word of the pope saying these things comes to us second hand, in a report of a private conversation between Francis and a gay man named Juan Carlos Cruz who is also a victim of the clerical sex abuse crisis in Chile, the utterance will go down as just the latest example of the pope making unorthodox statements in settings in which he has plausible deniability and in which he can claim he was speaking as a pastor rather than as an expositor of the church’s official dogmas and doctrines.

Most popes view themselves as caretakers of the church’s authoritative teachings on faith and morals. When it comes to homosexuality, they would therefore be inclined to reaffirm the position laid out in the Catechism of the Catholic Church, which clearly states that homosexual desires are “intrinsically disordered” because they are not oriented to the end of procreation. (The same is true of masturbation and other non-procreative sex acts.)

If Pope Francis were a straightforward reformer, he would seek to change church doctrine regardless of the potentially dire consequences for church unity. But Francis is well aware of the limits of his power and the danger of pushing too far too fast. So he has set out on a different, and distinctive, path.

[… examples…]

What unites all of these examples is a distinctive approach to church dogma and doctrine. Instead of acting as an expositor of these core teachings of the church, the pope selectively diverges from them in his actions and statements without deigning to change the teachings themselves. The implicit message is the same in every case: The pope himself thinks it’s possible to be a member of the church in good standing while failing to abide by all of the institution’s rules.

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[I] think the pope’s strategy for a longer game displays greater psychological acuity — and Machiavellian cunning. Francis may be betting that once the church stops preaching those doctrines that conflict most severely with modern moral norms, the number of people who uphold and revere them will decline rapidly (within a generation or two). Once that has happened, officially changing the doctrine will be much easier and much less likely to provoke a schism (or at least a major one) than it is in the present.

He could be right.  It could be that Francis is doing this as part of a long-term plan.   Or maybe not.

I am convinced that Pope John Paul in fact did have a few long-term plans.  I think he knew somehow that he would have a long pontificate.  He set out to shift the world’s episcopate from being nearly-out-of-the-Church weird, to being middle-of-the-road to conservative… slowly.  He started out by appointing a couple of strange guys (presented by the Congregation – which he shifted around) and a good guy.  Eventually, it was a couple of good guys and a strange guy.   He never moved hard enough to provoke a schism, which, it seems to me, could very well have happened in these USA after the chaos of post-conciliar era and the pontifical of Paul VI.

Speculation?

Sure.  This is the blogosphere, after all.

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Canadian Jesuit Archbp. Prendergast comments on crazy German bishops’ scheme

There are two kinds of Jesuits, and Ottawa’s Archbp. Terrence Prendergast is one of them.

He recently said some things that make a lot of sense about the nonsensical German bishops and their deeply dopey move towards Communion for non-Catholics and about fellow Jesuit Pope Francis and his decision to let them figure it out on their own. Check out the site of Ottawa’s Catholic weekly HERE.

Even a consensus among German Catholic bishops allowing intercommunion with Protestants cannot change Catholic teaching, says a Canadian archbishop.  [A “consensus” doesn’t make something that’s wrong into something that’s right.]

“Even more important is the challenge to remain faithful to Catholic doctrine and not to propose practices that undermine the faith, and the need to foster loyalty and communion with the universal Church,” said Archbishop Terrence Prendergast, SJ, of Ottawa in an interview. [In a way, the Germans would be splitting off from the rest of the Church.] “It is puzzling to learn that the Holy Father told the bishops that whatever they determine is acceptable as long as they all agree.”

A majority of German bishops would like to offer communion to Protestant spouses of Catholics under some circumstances. A minority disagrees. After a meeting May 3 at the Vatican of representatives of both sides of the debate, the prefect for the Congregation of the Doctrine of the Faith told them Pope Francis wanted the German bishops to find consensus on the matter.  [When We are Pope, We will immediately remove from office any bishop would would even whisper such a thing.]

Dutch Cardinal Willem Eijk, [May God bless him….] Archbishop of Utrecht, in an open letter May 5, urged the Pope to provide clarity, explaining both the Catechism of the Catholic Church and Canon Law do not permit intercommunion with Protestants.

“Pope Francis is right when he says that not every theological debate needs to be settled by authoritative interventions of the papal magisterium,” Prendergast said. “And Cardinal Eijk is right when he says that the question of intercommunion is a doctrinal matter that cannot be settled by an isolated decision of a national conference of bishops.”

“This is, in fact, a classical situation of discerning between things that are changeable — or possible — and others that are not,” the Jesuit archbishop said. “It seems clear by now that many bishops and Catholics in the world consider ill-advised and doctrinally impossible what a number of bishops in Germany have proposed.”

The intercommunion debate reaches the limit on pastoral diversity, he said.

Receiving the Eucharist is intrinsically linked to the faith, my personal faith and the faith of the community to which I belong,” Prendergast said. “What the majority of bishops in Germany proposes means that a person who does not belong to the Catholic Church routinely, perhaps every Sunday, receives the Eucharist in the Catholic Church.

“This kind of open communion is against Catholic teaching and from what I can see in non-Catholic congregations that follow a discipline of ‘open communion,’ it is also spiritually and pastorally unfruitful.”

[NB] The archbishop said he cannot ignore the German intercommunion debate because “the church is a close-knit network” and people of Ottawa are asking about it.  [It sounds as if the German bishops are causing scandal.]

“Catholics in Canada generally know that receiving communion requires belonging to the Church, among other things,” he said. “This discipline is well-known and widely appreciated in our parishes.”  [A 7 year-old should know this!]

The intercommunion debate offers an opportunity for Catholics in Canada to reconsider their own Eucharistic practices, he said, noting often Catholics who come to church after years of not attending receive communion “as a matter of course.”  [This is important.  I often write back to people who are really frustrated, especially to priests, that every time one of these controversies pop up – which is pretty often right now – we have an opportunity to stand in the pulpit with a copy of a good catechism and teach and explain the TRUTH.]

More needs to be taught concerning the benefits of attending Mass without receiving communion as well as what it means “to be properly disposed and in the state of grace,” the archbishop said. [YES YES YES!] “I feel we need to invest more in receiving the sacraments worthily and fruitfully. This is true for the Eucharist, but also for Baptism and Confirmation.”

“Formalism and cultural routine alone will not cut it,” he said. “Receiving communion has to make a difference in our lives, and be meaningful. Otherwise we are deceiving ourselves, and as pastors we are deceiving others.

“In Holy Communion we receive the Lord, and so, to receiving worthily, we need to be fully open to Him and connected to His Church, visibly and invisibly, institutionally and internally. That and nothing less is Catholic teaching.”

On a personal note, the Archbishop had some words for Pope Francis as a fellow Jesuit.

“I would say thanks for reminding us that accompanying people through their lives, especially in dark times, is essential for being a priest,” he said. “And thanks for resisting much media hysteria. We Jesuits always have to remember that most Catholics are not Jesuits[Are most Jesuits Catholics?  That’s another question.] — a fact we tend to overlook sometimes. Our spirituality is not for everyone — perhaps hard to say, but so true.

“For me, becoming a bishop was a real change, for then I had to recognize the whole spectrum of theologies, spiritualties, ministries and charisms present in the diocese entrusted to me,” he said. “Through this I came to realize what a great gift doctrine is for the Church, enabling it to be one, holy, and catholic.”

Fr. Z kudos in the extreme.

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Some cool stuff, old and new, in Rome and Detroit

First, I am glad to report that Gammarelli is ready to ship our new processional canopy, and we will have it in time for Corpus Christi.  It will match our white Pontifical Mass set.  Here are some shots of the guys playing with it before boxing it up.

Hmmm… I must get in touch right away with La Lame in NYC about appropriate appliqués.

Today a priest friend and I went to the Detroit Institute of Art.   The Star Wars exhibit is now open.  Obi-Wan’s gear…

C3PO’s stuff.

What Chewy might have looked like…. whew.

Ooops… that was Federico, Prince of Urbino at 18 months old.

This, however, is from Star Wars…

The detail and textures are simply amazing.

And the concept for the opening credits… notice anything?

And, just so that you don’t think that we spent the entire time in there, here is a magnificent French ivory.  Read it from the bottom up, left to right on each level.  Each box has two scenes, and they magnificently blend against each other.  Note in the first panel, the lovely S curves, typical to French Gothic.  I loaded a large image so you might be able to click it for a new tab and see it larger.

Wow, right?  What a happy lexicon of images, also like poetry.

And speaking of multiple images, there was a good display of tobacco baseball cards, an entire series for 1909-11.

Yes, they had a Honus Wagner, in another case.  Here are a few highlights… passing over Ty Cobb and Christy Mathewson and Cy Young.

I wonder who will pick up on these guys…

That last bit was for a friend who is a bit of a Cubs fab.   Eamus Catuli.

And these houses are just around the corner from where I am presently writing.  There are blocks and block and blocks like this in every direction.

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