ASK FATHER: What does “attachment to sin” mean?

From a reader…

QUAERITUR:

Please forgive me for being obtuse but what does being free from “attachment” to sin actually mean? I so want to relieve as many Holy Souls as possible in the coming month. Thank you

Jesus says in Matthew’s Gospel, “Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.” (Mt. 5:48). That’s a pretty high standard. An equally high standard is what the Church puts before us in our theology of indulgences. We can only gain a plenary indulgence when we are free of attachment to sin.

Being “perfect”, and being “free of attachment to sin”, seem impossible.  But we know with great confidence that, with God, all things are possible (Matthew 19:26). Our Lord and His Church do not dangle before our eyes things that are impossible for us to attain. Therefore, “perfection”, and “freedom from attachment to sin” are possible to attain.  More here.

How does freedom from attachment to sin look like?

Let’s look at its opposite: attachment to sin.

Millicent has an ongoing struggle with the sins of gossip, envy, jealousy, and pride. She is self-aware enough to know these are sins. She does a thorough examination of conscience every two weeks before she goes to confession. She confesses her sins with sincerity and humility. She is truly sorry, and her sins are forgiven. She knows she should change her pattern of behavior.  But, she’s afraid that doing so might cause her to lose some friends. Like St. Paul, she wonders, “Why do I do what I do not want to do?” (Romans 7:15). Millicent, a good woman, is still attached to her sins, even though she’s doing the right thing and regularly confessing them.  In a secret place she doesn’t like to look into she still enjoys the sin, or rather the benefits of the sin and, in sense, that enjoyment, or attachment, is a flaw in her love for God and in her gratitude for His saving gifts.

In order for Millicent to be disposed to receive a plenary indulgence, she must do some hard work to cooperate with God’s grace. Breaking habits of sin is hard work.  We have, by the way, armies of saints and angels and the Good Lord Himself are ready to help.

Remember that indulgences are either for the remission of all temporal punishment (penance and purification required) due to sin or part of that punishment.  They are full (plenary) or partial.  If we try to gain an plenary indulgence and – this is important – we are not free of attachment to sin – we still can gain a partial indulgence for that work.

That’s not nothing!

So… how to get rid of attachment to sin.

For Millicent, getting free of her attachments to gossip might mean giving up some friendships, as well as avoiding situations that lead to sin (“near occasions of sin”).  It will involve praying to her Guardian Angel each and every time she goes into a conversation asking for help to avoid gossip. She might have to go to confession weekly instead of bi-weekly.  She must be willing to suffer losses.  She must learn to say no to her impulses.

She will then have more and more moments when she doesn’t hate the sins just enough.  She won’t harbor a tacit enjoyment.

Mind you… we are all poor sinners.  Also, the Enemy is really good at planting suggestions and leading us to think and feel wicked things.  Attachment or freedom will ebb and flow.   BUT… we can consciously pursue freedom from attachments to sin and, slowly but surely, get better at it.

What Holy Church asks, in your obtaining an indulgence, is that you are doing your best to love God and neighbor and to hate sin.  That’s it.  At the moment you are seeking the indulgence, try with all your mind and heart to see your sins for what they are and then sincerely to place them aside.  That’s what the Church is asking.  Doing this again and again and again, with acts of will and lot’s of requests for grace, will make it easier and the angels and saints will rejoice over you.

So, because Holy Church wants us to gain indulgences, try to gain them even if you’re not certain that you’re free from all attachment to sin.

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YOUR URGENT PRAYER REQUESTS

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Registered or not, will you in your charity please take a moment look at the requests and to pray for the people about whom you read?

Continued from THESE.

I get many requests by email asking for prayers. Many requests are heart-achingly grave and urgent.

As long as my blog reaches so many readers in so many places, let’s give each other a hand. We should support each other in works of mercy.

If you have some prayer requests, feel free to post them below.

You have to be registered here to be able to post.

I still have a pressing personal petition.  Really.

 

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Wherein Fr. Z asks a favor during this time of blogosphere chaos

I am heading back to home from Rome today.  In the lounge I’m checking on blogs, etc., since I haven’t been paying much attention during and in the wake of the pilgrimage I came for.

Lot’s of tension and conflict right now… following the Synod.   That brings to mind something about trees and fruit…. what was that quote again?

Anyway, do me a favor.   If you are reading the blogs and news outlets, etc., do not… do NOT forget prayer, before and after.   Remember in prayer the people who are out there posting, especially if you can’t stand them … disagree with them!  (Say one for me, too, please?)

You might use the Internet Prayer.  If St. Isidore isn’t your go-to-guy, ask another saint or angel for help.

 

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My View For Awhile: Domum

Before heading to the airport, I dashed to church to say Mass.

Campo de’ Fiori as the stands are being set up.


After Mass, again it’s a pleasure to see the altars being used.  They are not, after all, just decorations or left overs.


Waiting for my ride I had to have a little pizza bianca and mortadella.

I could have used a couple more days to do what I needed to get done but… I have to return in January.  Beh.

UPDATE:

And now…


The priority check in process went like lightning until I got to the Fast Track security part. It was completely absurd.  As the regular X-ray lines went smoothly and quickly it took 20 minutes to do 4 people.  It was rather like that last time too.   Note to self: Go to the regular X-ray line at Terminal 5. Sheesh.

UPDATE

Back in these USA, in Atlanta, I opted for a Burger a Boardwalk in Concourse A.

Next flight soon.

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Rome – Last Day: Candles and Apostolic Tombs

Yesterday I met a friend who is beginning a new business for vestments and clerical garb.

This is the sort of thing he is able to produce at a fraction of the cost of Roman shops.

Interesting no?  Wouldn’t it be great to have access to vestments like this without mortgaging the diocese?


Just a sight in the street.   I have a special affection for the old “No Littering” signs.  One young fellow who saw me taking the photo told me that there is a blog for these!  Who knew?


I had appointments in the Vatican City State on Wednesday.  Thus I stopped at my old office.   Here’s a shot of my old window (from the outside obviously).   No, it isn’t a prison cell.  However, people would stop and talk to me through the bars.


Then to the Governatorato.  More about that in my CQ Saturday post.

Since I was passing the Basilica I ducked in through the side door under the monument of Alexander VII to visit the tomb of Sts Simon and Jude, whose feast it was (28 October).

Then back out the same way and off to lunch.

“alla Norcina”!

A trip to Rome is not complete without prayer at the tomb of Rome’s co-patron, St Philip Neri.

In the Chiesa Nuova… what’s wrong with this picture.

Back to the Vatican for an appointment with the Swiss Guard for whom we had the special breastplate made.   I’ll have a separate post on that.  Meanwhile…


A taste …

Finally an interesting photo of yours truly saying the evening Mass not yesterday but the day before.  As it happened the electricity was completely out.

Thanks to passioxp.com for the shot!

So, I am now back in these USA.

I am very grateful to all of you who helped me on this trip.

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Tambourine player tased, pepper sprayed, during church service

I swear I am not making this up. It’s not from Eye of the Tiber. It’s not from Onion. It’s from KOFR.com in Oklahoma.  (There’s video!)

Tambourine player tased during church service

EDMOND, Okla. — Most churches encourage praise and worship. In fact, the Bible states, “make a joyful noise to the Lord.”

But 50-year-old Vickey Sue Beyersdorfer apparently went a bit too far. [Perfect.]

Oklahoma County Sheriff’s Department Spokesman Mark Myers said, “Nobody could pay attention to the sermon or what was going on so that’s when our deputy was able to take care of the situation.”  [I’m picturing.]

The religious ruckus happened at Victory Church at 1515 N. Kelly Ave in Edmond.

A woman was apparently playing a tambourine too loudly during Wednesday night services.

When she refused to stop, the woman was escorted out by an off duty Oklahoma County Sheriff’s Deputy.

Myers said, “He had to physically escort her outside the church. Once outside, she broke free from the deputy and tried to go back inside, there became a physical confrontation.” [Still picturing…]

According to the arrest report, the deputy was forced to pepper spray and tase the unruly woman.  [I’ll bet that rattled that tambourine… in a sad sort of mucus dripping way.]

Myers said, “She was not filled with the Holy spirit. She was not being very Christianly and this is why the folks decided to get her out as soon as possible.” [Who am I to judge.]

Witnesses said the combative Christian was staggering and had slurred speech. [Before she went to church or after being tased?]

Authorities did find prescription pain medication in her possession.

Authorities have not said if that medication was found in her system or if that may have contributed to the incident.

Yes.  News story.

Of course what do we all think of when “tambourine” comes up?

ZUHLIO!

You all learned of Zuhlio’s artistic and ecclesial greatness with the hit single Fifty Ways To Rig A Synod. But some of you may not remember his earlier triumph

Lady Tambourine Priest

Best on real events, HERE (again… I’m not making this up) this song went platinum almost as soon as it was released.

Channeling his inner Bob Dylan (who came from Zuhlio’s native Minnesota… also… something Dylan mentions… “Yah… I come from the same place Zuhlio comes from, don’chya know.”), Zuhlio sings of the moving experience of the fake ordination of a woman and her celebratory … not. making. it. up. … “ordination tambourine”.

For comparison:

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Too too muchly stupid

This is one of the stupidest things I have seen for a while.

NRO picked up on something from HuffPo. HERE

Adverbs are, apparently, evil.

Adverbs: They’re hurting people. According to a piece in the Huffington Post, the word “too” is sexist and hurts women by constantly making them feel like they’re not good enough. In a piece titled “The 3-Letter Word That Cuts Women Down,” University of Vermont freshman Cameron Schaeffer explains that she had an “epiphany” about the word after talking with a friend about how she should cut her hair. “Our conversation ended with, ‘Well you don’t want it to be too short or too long,’” Schaeffer writes. “There is no proper way for a woman to cut her hair, let alone do anything right in this world . . . Everything is too this or too that,” she continues. Now, when she says “everything,” of course what she really means is “everything as it applies to women.” After all, the very real damage inflicted by this word is yet another tragedy that only affects us: “In my experience, I rarely hear too thrown around about men,” she explains. “You hear someone say, ‘He’s short,’ but you seldom hear ‘too short.’” (To be fair, I don’t really hear a male described as “Too Short” very often either, but kind feel like that’s probably just because he hasn’t released an album since 2012 and isn’t really on the scene as much as he used to be.) If you think Schaeffer’s reaction to the word “too” is crazy, don’t worry. She thinks it’s crazy, too — crazy that a “a well-versed feminist” like her didn’t realize that she needed to be outraged sooner: “I never realized how deeply a three-letter adverb could cut,” she writes. “My internal opinion is always that I’m too this or too that,” she continues. “I, like most women, have been deprived of self-satisfaction and appreciation because of this word and this attitude.”

[…]

Good grief. I lost 30 IQ points just reading that part. Don’t worry. I can spare them.

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Here’s a writing assignment for you.

Give me a 100 word essay on feminists using as many adverbs as you can possibly pack in. I want it to ooze with adverbs, like the mozzarella I cut into yesterday oozed milk.

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We must make the choice to persevere!

I share hereunder a note I received from one of you readers after my own post-synodal exhortation not to give up any ground in the Synod’s wake. We must persevere! In the face of what seem like decreasingly favorable odds, we must persevere.

From the reader (with permission):

Dr. Fr. Z., Yes, persevere! Do not give up in preaching the truth!
Souls are being saved by faithful priests. I know. My dear husband
left The Church 7 years into our marriage. Protestant co-workers
“enlightened” his mind and he discovered the “truth” in the protestant
church. He did his best to preach to me, ridicule me and the Catholic
Church, and recruit me and our young children to follow his path. I
refused. My own faith was ignited. I persevered in prayer and daily
Mass and rosary. I did not waver. Fought depression and panic attacks.
But stayed the course, clutching my rosary every step of the way. 25
YEARS WENT BY like this! Then, in Advent 2012, my husband went to Mass
and heard a powerful homily on the 4 Last Things. He went to
confession the next morning and received Jesus at Mass the following
day, for the first time in 25 years! Oh, how good God is! Yes, I
wanted to leave him during those difficult years. Our marriage was
terribly lonely and empty. He did not live up to his vows. He
endangered my faith and the faith of our children. But.. I stuck with
it and persevered by God’s grace and ONLY by God’s grace. My husband
is back and we celebrated 34 years of marriage this past August. And
so, Fr. Z, preach the truth! It matters! Don’t waver! Don’t give up!
People are listening! Souls are being saved! God bless you and all the
other faithful priests who are not afraid to do the right thing. As I
finish this email, I begin a rosary for you…for wisdom and courage
and perseverance to firmly adhere to what is true and good and
beautiful!

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How liberals are handling their defeat at the Synod

I want to bring some stimulating reading to the readership’s attention, lest you miss it.

First, One Mad Mom has a serious rant and it is pretty entertaining!   Here’s just a small sample.

What sparked Fr. Martin banning everyone under the sun? He wasn’t too happy about the response to this tweet:

martin

Haters? Are you 15, Fr. Martin? Anyone notice the irony of calling faithful Catholics “haters”, talking about mercy, and then turning around and blocking all those “haters?” Where’s the mercy for them? Oh, yeah, they don’t deserve mercy, since they aren’t cheerleaders for sacrilege against the Eucharist and making people comfy with their sins. Now, I really don’t care if someone wants to give me a derogatory label, although it might be nice if it was something appropriate for their advanced years. For instance, I would say he’s a hypocrite. What annoys me is the actual hypocrisy of blocking people who disagree with one’s definition of “mercy.”

There’s more.  Don’t miss it.

Ross Douthat of the NYT really got under the skin of a whole raft of libs who, in typical lib fashion, reacted badly and are now trying silence him.  Douthat wrote about how the libs lost at the Synod, how they did not get their Church and doctrine changing agenda through.  HERE – go read it now.   That made liberal heads explode.  They signed on to a group letter whining to the Editor of Hell’s Bible that that sort of thing shouldn’t be permitted. After all, they sneered, Douthat doesn’t have a theology degree.

First, here is a sample of Douthat’s piece that has the spittle-flecked libs popping arteries out of their foreheads:

Nobody, of course, because there weren’t two “sides” or camps or (heaven help us) factions or anything so nasty as all that. It was all a dialogue, a moment of encounter and discernment, an opening to the Holy Spirit that set the Roman Catholic Church free to bechurch in a new way for the third millennium. It was a beginning, an overture, the first chapter in a neverending story, the first step on a permanent journey, because we are all sojourners together. So nobody won, because really everybody won.

As Saint Athanasius would say, LOL. No, look, what actually happened is that conservatives won what was probably the closest thing to victory that they could have hoped for, given that 1) the pope was against them, and 2) the pope stacked the governing and writing committees and the voting ranks, and did I mention that 3) the pope was against them. (People who still argue that Pope Francis was studiously neutral, that he just wanted dialogue, or that his views are unknowable, need to sit down and read the tongue-lashing he gave to conservatives in his closing address — and contrast it with the much more evenhanded way he closed last fall’s synod, when conservative resistance to the synod’s intended direction was much more disorganized.) Which is to say they produced a document that used unfashionable words like “indissoluble” to talk about marriage, that mostly avoided the subject of homosexuality, and that offered a few dense, occasionally-ambiguous, slightly-impenetrable paragraphs on welcoming and accompanying divorced and remarried Catholics without offering either a path to communion absent an annulment or proposing to devolve that question to national bishops conferences, as the German bishops and the rest of the progressive caucus at the synod clearly wished.

So the journalists covering the synod document as a setback for the innovators (and, because he elevated them, the pontiff) are mostly correct, given their ambitions going in. But so, in a certain way, are the journalists covering it as a kind of cracked-door to innovation, because the conservatives didn’t have the votes or the power to keep every ambiguity at bay. The most straightforward reading of the synod text supports the first interpretation, for the reasons that (among others) George Weigel and Robert Royal lay out: There is no abrogation of the ancient ban on communion for the remarried, and plenty of phrasings that indicate that ban is still in force. But at the same time, as Royal also notes, the text is not as plain as the document it quotes, John Paul II’s Familiaris Consortio, and it spends so much time talking about discernment and individual cases that it seems to sometimes come “right up to the edge” of communion for the remarried, as Royal puts it, without “crossing over into it in so many words.”

How you interpret that tiptoe act, in turn, depends on how you want to interpret it. If you want to read for continuity with the Catholic past, and interpret the synod document in the light of the prior teachings that it cites, you will end up with, well, a conservative, continuity-based reading. If you want to read for rupture, though, you’ll stress the direction of movement, the fact that the new text is somewhat less clear and more ambiguous than previous texts, and suggest that even such a modest change, by its nature, opens the door to further changes still. This is roughly how many of the documents of Vatican II ended up being read by liberal Catholics, as the English Latin Mass champion Joseph Shaw points out here; “spirit of Vatican II” interpretations of where the church should go after the council, he notes:

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So the libs wrote a letter.  Here it is with the list of signatories I have at this time.

To the editor of the New York Times

On Sunday, October 18, the Times published Ross Douthat’s piece “The Plot to Change Catholicism.” Aside from the fact that Mr. Douthat has no professional qualifications for writing on the subject, the problem with his article and other recent statements is his view of Catholicism as unapologetically subject to a politically partisan narrative that has very little to do with what Catholicism really is. Moreover, accusing other members of the Catholic church of heresy, sometimes subtly, sometimes openly, is serious business that can have serious consequences for those so accused. This is not what we expect of the New York Times.

October 26, 2015

John O’Malley, SJ (Georgetown University)
Massimo Faggioli (University of St. Thomas, Minnesota)
Nicholas P. Cafardi (Duquesne University)
Gerard Mannion (Georgetown University)
Stephen Schloesser, SJ (Loyola University Chicago)
Katarina Schuth OSF (University of St. Thomas, Minnesota)
Leslie Tentler (Catholic University of America, emerita)

John Slattery (University of Notre Dame)
Megan McCabe (Boston College)
Thomas M. Bolin (St. Norbert College)
Kevin Brown (Boston College)
Alan C. Mitchell (Georgetown University)
Elizabeth Antus (John Carroll University)
Kathleen Grimes (Villanova University)
Fran Rossi Szpylczyn
Christopher Bellitto (Kean University)
Katharine Mahon (University of Notre Dame)
Corey Harris (Alvernia University)
Kevin Ahern (Manhattan College)
John DeCostanza (Dominican University)
Daniel Cosacchi (Loyola University Chicago)
Amy Levad (University of St. Thomas, Minnesota)
Christine McCarthy (Fordham University)
Sonja Anderson (Yale University)
Fr. Robert A. Busch (Diocese of Amarillo)
Brandon Peterson (University of Utah)
Heather Miller Rubens (Institute for Christian and Jewish Studies)
Daniel Dion (Rivier University)
Mark Miller (University of San Francisco)
William T. Ditewig (Santa Clara University)
Stuart Squires (Brescia University)
Gerald O’Collins, SJ (Gregorian University, emeritus)
Anthony J. Godzieba (Villanova University)
Terrence W. Tilley (Fordham University)
Michael J. Hollerich (University of St. Thomas, Minnesota)
Gerald Schlabach (University of St. Thomas, Minnesota)
Luca Badini Confalonieri (Wijngaards Institute for Catholic Research)
Francis Schussler Fiorenza (Harvard Divinity School)
Rebecca A. Chabot (Iliff School of Theology)
Mark Massa, SJ (Boston College School of Theology and Ministry)
James T. Bretzke, SJ (Boston College School of Theology and Ministry)
Anne Clifford (Iowa State University)
Jack Downey (La Salle University)
Sherry Jordon (University of St. Thomas, Minnesota)
Julia Lamm (Georgetown University)

Were I made Patriarch of North America by Pius XIII I might start with that list of signers as we began the clean up of Catholic schools.

Rod Dreher jumped into the fray with both feet HERE. Dreher also reproduced the whiny lib letter.

The McCarthyism of Liberal Catholic Elites

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The Catholic layman Ross Douthat, according to these liberal Catholic academics, is too stupid to have an opinion about Catholicism, because he has not been trained in theology. And his opinions are invalid because they reach offer a conclusion offensive to the letter-writers follow a “politically partisan narrative that has very little to do with what Catholicism really is.” You will look at the October 18 column in question, and anything else Ross Douthat has written about Catholicism, and I very much doubt you will find anything contrary to the faith and morals magisterially proclaimed by the Roman Catholic Church. You will unquestionably find much contrary to the faith and morals magisterially proclaimed by the Faggioli-O’Malley crew.

Furthermore, and perhaps most embarrassingly to the letter-writers, they actually try to do the Catholic version of red-baiting Douthat, as if a newspaper columnist’s criticism of heresy (“sometimes subtly, sometimes openly”) actually stood to make a difference in the lives of those so accused. It is ridiculous. That term “sometimes subtly, sometimes openly” is downright McCarthyite. Read the actual column; the word “heresy” doesn’t appear in it, and if it did, so what? Heresy is a constant issue within Christianity, and has been since the beginning.

I must have missed the letters from this bunch complaining about the frequent columns from Douthat’s liberal Catholic colleagues Maureen Dowd and Frank Bruni complaining about Benedict XVI and anything to do with Catholic orthodoxy. George Weigel documented some of Dowd’s charges in her column here:

[…]

Bill Donohue of the Catholic League also got into it HERE.

Anyway… do some reading.  I think you will see that the libs are in panic mode.

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Welcome Aboard New Registrants!

To participate in the combox here, you must be registered and approved (by me).

Since the blog is under constant attack by spammers and nefarious ne’er-do-wells, I use the “about you” field in particular to screen registrations.

Welcome aboard recent registrants! (I think I got everyone.)

Since the last time…

John Valentine
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Greg Schlueter
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AND…

jlaws
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Michael Gerard
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