ASK FATHER: Pre-owned engagement or wedding ring. Exorcism?

From a reader…

QUAERITUR:

Thanks for everything you do, your blog has been tremendously helpful over the years. My girlfriend and I are getting engaged soon and when we went ring shopping, our favorite one was previously owned. I want to make sure this kind of ring is safe to buy if I don’t know its history… is it likely that there are any harmful spiritual/demonic attachments, and if so, are there blessings and/or exorcisms that a parish priest could say in order to get rid of any harmful spiritual baggage? Or would it be better to choose a different ring? (This ring was far and away the most beautiful one we found, so we really don’t want to choose a different one). Thanks so much, God bless!

I am glad that you are aware of the possibility of bad influences from objects whose provenance is uncertain.

It seems to me that, once purchased, all you have to do is take the ring to a priest and ask him to bless it, preferably with the older, traditional Rituale Romanum and with Holy Water blessed with the traditional rite.

As a matter of fact… now that my memory storage disc is finally spinning up… there are both a traditional blessing for a wedding ring and a traditional Rite of Betrothal.  It should be in the Rituale Romanum. I know it is in “Weller”.   Also, Angelus Press has an handy printing/booklet for the betrothal rite.

In any event, get the ring blessed.  No problem.

However, if it starts to spin around and you hear howling, drop your Harry Potter book and send me another email.

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Daily Rome Shot 438, etc. (Why did the Lord call the Canaanite woman a “dog”?)

Daily Rome Shot 438, etc. (Why did the Lord call the Canaanite woman a "dog"?)

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Daily Rome Shot 438, etc. (Why did the Lord call the Canaanite woman a "dog"?)

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Fr. Z asks: Are you preparing?

QUAEROR:

Are you preparing?

The economic situation looks pretty dire. As fuel prices go up, the cost of everything, not just fuel for your car or heat for your house, will be passed on to us. There are supply chain issues. And who knows what China is going to do.

Conditions can change for the worse REALLY FAST.

Are you taking steps?

What are they?

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Daily Rome Shot 437, etc.

Daily Rome Shot 437, etc.

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Meanwhile…

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Daily Rome Shot 436, etc.

Daily Rome Shot 436, etc.

Daily Mass Fervorino.

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In fasting times, monks drank beer. Just sayin’
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Turn Towards The Lord Again!

Turn Towards The Lord Again!

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Solomon’s Temple was much larger than the Tabernacle of Moses, in part because it was also intended to be a house of prayer for all nations, the Gentiles.   As a matter of fact, Gentiles helped build the Temple.

When Solomon dedicates the Temple in 2 Chronicles 6, orientation of prayer is explicit.

First,

6 Then Solomon said,

“The Lord has said that he would dwell in thick darkness.
2 I have built thee an exalted house,
    a place for thee to dwell in for ever.”

3 Then the king faced about, and blessed all the assembly of Israel, while all the assembly of Israel stood.

See that?  To begin, he turns to address the people.

Then…

12 Then Solomon stood before the altar of the Lord in the presence of all the assembly of Israel, and spread forth his hands. 13 Solomon had made a bronze platform five cubits long, five cubits wide, and three cubits high, and had set it in the court; and he stood upon it. Then he knelt upon his knees in the presence of all the assembly of Israel, and spread forth his hands toward heaven; 

In Solomon’s prayer of dedication of the Temple in 2 Chronicles 6, he said:

32 “Likewise when a foreigner, who is not of thy people Israel, comes from a far country for the sake of thy great name, and thy mighty hand, and thy outstretched arm, when he comes and prays toward this house, 33 hear thou from heaven thy dwelling place, and do according to all for which the foreigner calls to thee; in order that all the peoples of the earth may know thy name and fear thee, as do thy people Israel, and that they may know that this house which I have built is called by thy name.

“TOWARD THIS HOUSE”… that’s because the Presence of God was in the Temple upon the Ark in the Holy of Holies.

34 “If thy people go out to battle against their enemies, by whatever way thou shalt send them, and they pray to thee toward this city which thou hast chosen and the house which I have built for thy name, 35 then hear thou from heaven their prayer and their supplication, and maintain their cause.

Toward Jerusalem, because that’s where the Temple is.   And if people were taken into captivity,…

36 “If they sin against thee—for there is no man who does not sin—and thou art angry with them, and dost give them to an enemy, so that they are carried away captive to a land far or near; 37 yet if they lay it to heart in the land to which they have been carried captive, and repent, and make supplication to thee in the land of their captivity, saying, ‘We have sinned, and have acted perversely and wickedly’; 38 if they repent with all their mind and with all their heart in the land of their captivity, to which they were carried captive, and pray toward their land, which thou gavest to their fathers, the city which thou hast chosen, and the house which I have built for thy name, 

Then, the Presence of God is called by Solomon to descend on the Temple.

41 “And now arise, O Lord God, and go to thy resting place,
    thou and the ark of thy might.
Let thy priests, O Lord God, be clothed with salvation,
    and let thy saints rejoice in thy goodness.
42 O Lord God, do not turn away the face of thy anointed one!
    Remember thy steadfast love for David thy servant.”

Those who try to forbid ad orientem worship are GETTING IT WRONG.

Prayers addressed by the priest to God should be pronounced so that all, priest and people, are FACING THE SAME WAY.  When the priest addresses the people, he turns around to face them.

Much of Holy Mass aligns with the structure of the Temple and the worship that took place there.  They did what they did for reasons that looked both backward to God’s own rubrics for worship and forward to the fulfillment of what they could only hope about… and which we have.

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ASK FATHER: Can I marry my godfather’s daughter?

From a reader…

QUAERITUR:

Is it okay, if I marry my godfather’s daughter? We are not related by blood.

An excellent question.

St. Thomas Aquinas – whose feast it is today in the Vetus Ordo – wrote of spiritual affinity and the impediment it created in Question 56 of the supplement to the Summa Theologica.

The relationship between godparents and their godchildren is referred to as a relationship of “spiritual affinity.”

Spiritual affinity also occurs between the minister of baptism (who could be a lay person) and the one baptized. It is not the same as consanguinity (the relationship arising from sharing a bloodline) or simple affinity (the relationship that arises by way of marriage), but it is a relationship nonetheless.

In the Latin Church, until the 1983 Code took effect on 27 November 1983, spiritual affinity did create an impediment to marriage. Godparents could not marry their godchildren. A baptizer could not marry a baptizee.  However, the relationship of a confirmation sponsor to the confirmand is not the same as that of a godparent to godchild, so the impediment of spiritual affinity did not arise.

The Church understands the impediment of spiritual affinity to be ecclesiastical law, not divine law. Therefore, a dispensation from this impediment could be given, and the law could be changed.

In fact, the Church did change the law for the Western Church with the 1983 Code.  Spiritual affinity is no longer an impediment for Latin Catholics.

The Eastern Church, however, have retained it. Can 811 of the 1990 Code of Canons of the Eastern Churches states in paragraph 1, “From baptism there arises a spiritual relationship between a sponsor and the baptized person and the parents of the same that invalidated marriage.” Paragraph 2 explains that the relationship of spiritual affinity does not arise with the sponsor used in a conditional baptism. Thus, for Eastern Catholics the impediment exists not just between the baptized and his godparents, but also between the godparents and the parents of the one baptized.

The fact that spiritual affinity is no longer an impediment to marriage in the Latin Church does not mean that it should not be taken into consideration.

Not infrequently, when an unbaptized spouse wants to become Catholic, the Catholic spouse wants to serve as a sponsor. This is no longer prohibited, but that doesn’t mean it is a good idea.

The relationship between a godparent and a godchild is of a different category than between spouses.

Similarly, a confirmation sponsor has a different role than a spouse. There may be cases where this would be appropriate.

Since the Church no longer calls it an impediment in the Latin Church, people should be free to make these choices, but some caution should be taken.

So, in a nutshell, in the Latin Church godparents and godchildren can marry each other if they are Latins.  Eastern Catholics cannot marry a godparent/godchild.

With the relative of a godparent, there is no issue canonically (Eastern or Latin).

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Daily Rome Shot 436, etc. – new addition

I’m trying to provide some daily amusements in one post rather than pepper the blog with individual entries.

Today, I post about LENTLE, developed in India, Wordle for LENT. HERE

Daily Rome Shot 436, etc. - new addition

Today’s daily Mass fervorino: HERE

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Buying or selling a home?  Use one of their realtors and some of the sale will go to prolife activity.

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Your Sunday Sermon Notes: 1st Sunday of Lent

Your Sunday Sermon Notes: 1st Sunday of Lent

Too many people today are without good, strong preaching, to the detriment of all. Share the good stuff.

Was there a GOOD point made in the sermon you heard at the Masses for the 1st Sunday of Lent?

Tell about attendance especially for the Traditional Latin Mass.  I hear that it is growing.  Of COURSE.

Any local changes or (hopefully good) news?

Those of you who regularly viewed my live-streamed daily Masses – with their fervorini – for over a year, you might drop me a line.

I have some written remarks about the TLM Mass for this Sunday – HERE

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Private: CQ CQ CQ: Ham Radio – #ZedNet reminder – 6 March ’22

Private: CQ CQ CQ: Ham Radio – #ZedNet reminder – 6 March ’22Fellow hams, here’s a reminder about ZedNet for Sunday 6 March ’22 – evening at 2000h EST. (0100h ZULU Monday).

We now have the site running:  http://zednet.xyz

Zednet exists on the…

  • Yaesu System Fusion (Wires-X) “room” 28598, and 83466 which is cross-linked to
  • Brandmeister (BM) DMR worldwide talkgroup 31429 (More HERE)
  • Echolink  WB0YLE-R

Fellow hams who have access locally to a Yaesu System Fusion repeater, a repeater on the BM network, or a multi-mode hotspot registered with BM can get on and have a rag chew…. 24/7/365

Want to get involved? WB0YLE provided a Bill Of Materials, with links, for what you need. HERE  THIS WAS UPDATED on 22 March 2021

I created a page for the List of YOUR callsigns.  HERE  Chime in or drop me a note if your call doesn’t appear in the list.

Private: CQ CQ CQ: Ham Radio – #ZedNet reminder – 6 March ’22

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