She is dead on about where the focus of the TLM is. She also gets that true liturgical worship is hard. Indirectly, she touches on the point I am constantly making about how Mass must bring about an encounter with mystery.
I suggest to her that, as she continues to attend the TLM, she hold in mind during Holy Mass that the true Actor is Christ the High Priest.
PS: I don’t condone the use of “Latin Mass” for the Extraordinary Form or (pick your term). “Latin Mass” should also apply to the Novus Ordo.